Planning the date
The key to a successful retreat is planning, this applies if
you are going away for a weekend or taking a couple of days off work and having
your retreat at home.
If you have a family you may find it easier to plan your
retreat during the week and book a couple of days off work. You will need to
ensure that during your writing times you are not disturbed at all; no-one
asking where the vacuum cleaner is kept, no answering the phone and no friends
over for coffee. Choose one or two days when you can just sit down and write
It should be possible to organise 5 hours of writing in a day
– that is 2 slots of two and a half hours; any more than this and you may
become fatigued.
Preparing for the day
Place – select a place to write, this might be your dining
table, a desk in an office, the library or your local coffee shop.
Food – wherever you are going to write ensure you have enough
food and drink available; prepare it in advance so you are not taking up
valuable writing time. It is OK to eat a meal in your local coffee shop if
either you are writing there or the cafe is within a short distance of where
you are working.
Writing – decide exactly what you are going to write on your
retreat. You do not want to sit at your desk, pen in hand, and have no idea
about what comes next. You may decide to outline a novel or write a complete
chapter. You may decide on a short story or an article. Have a plan of what to
do and a basic outline of subject, characters or plot. Gather any materials you
need and bookmark any websites for research.
Family – for your retreat days you need to be on your own,
ensure that you have selected days when you will not be disturbed. If there are
other people in your home then make sure you choose a writing place out of the
house. Arrange for the children to see friends, ask a partner to go visit their
family for the day. If family are around they will disturb you.
Chores – list anything that you have to do on your retreat
days day – walk the dog, get children to school. Then try to find alternatives
where possible, perhaps a friend will take and collect the kids from school.
Give the dog have a shorter walk and then perhaps a second walk at lunchtime.
Music – you may prefer to work in silence. If not put
together a playlist or CDs to listen to. Do not have the radio or TV on, these
will distract you.
On the day
From the moment your retreat starts image you are on holiday
in a luxury hotel, if you are on holiday you will not be doing the washing up,
putting the washing machine on, cooking meals, or making the beds. This is back
to the planning, if you have to provide an evening meal for the family then do
it the day before.
Have a start time for your writing and be in your writing
place at that time. Ensure you have water and snacks with you. Turn off the
Internet and emails, turn off your phone or at least put it on silence face
down on the table.
Write until lunchtime, do not stop, do not answer the phone,
do not answer the door. Just before lunchtime make a note of what you are going
to do after lunch, this might be edit the short story you have just completed.
At lunchtime stop for a break, move away from your writing,
take a short walk, eat lunch and drink water. Take at least half an hour but no
more than an hour. If you have reached a difficult point in your writing relax
and try to think through the problem. You might decide to meditate for a short
while – this is not only relaxing but can refresh you. During lunch do not do
any household tasks, check emails, or use social media. You want to keep your
mind open for your writing only.
After lunch return to your writing again with snacks and
water. Towards the end of your writing time review what you have achieved. If
you have completed a short story or article then why not post it off to your
chosen magazine. If you have two days for your retreat then note what you are
going to do the next morning.
At the end of your writing day you may have the family back
home, if this is the case then feed them and relax with them. If you have
managed to get some quiet time in the evening then relax with a meal and some
music. It is useful to keep the TV turned off and just listen to music as you
are thinking through your writing.
What are you waiting for – select your dates and enjoy your retreat.
Happy writing.
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